Subject: Escort Work. ‘Sex work’ or ‘escort work‘ is a broad category defining a spectrum of different sexual activities, which can include but are certainly not limited to: lap dancing, adult video scenes, strip-soliciting, adult services, prostitution, sexual acts in exchange for money, and dating. To be fair, it is probably the word ‘sugar baby’ that adds to the confusion regarding the subject matter here. Some people refer to the various activities mentioned above in relation to being a sugar baby, but in actuality sugar babies are more properly described as young women between the ages of fifteen and thirty five who actively seek out sexual relationships with men who are in their late thirties or forties. Sugar babies have an endless supply of potential suitors due to the age gap between them and the men they are trying to date. Sugar baby escorts tend to be highly attractive (physically, otherwise) and skilled in the art of attracting men.
The word sugar itself conjures up images of young women who sell sexual favors for money in a brothel. However, as it turns out, there is no legal requirement for any potential sugar baby to be engaged in any type of commercial sex work, or indeed be engaged in any type of escort work, when seeking a relationship with a person of the opposite sex. In fact, many men consider that having a sugar baby as an escort, while it would be great fun, would not be worth the risk associated with carrying out a successful relationship in the real world. And the few men who do realize this, often employ independent escort or pimp girls to ensure that they are able to have as much fun as possible without putting their wives through unnecessary worry.
This brings me on to the subject of sugar babies, who are also commonly known as “horton-salway” girls. Horton-salway girls operate within the grey areas of the law. They are independent contractors, who may receive money for arranging engagements and/or liaisons. However, they are not legally obligated to work in the sex industry and they cannot legally advertise their services.
Many independent escorts have been drawn into the field by the proliferation of Internet “escorts”. These women advertise their services on websites, in chat rooms and on Internet message boards. They are mostly 16 years old and they have not been trained by professional handlers and they lack the necessary experience to carry out successful deals with clients. This does not mean, however, that these “girl escorts” are no good – far from it!
The most talented sugar baby escorts run legitimate businesses and they earn a living. Some of them also run small organizations and they employ other women to help them do their work. They can choose to work independently or as part of a larger organization. They will also often work as private investigators, mediators and investigators. The beauty of working in the escort business is that there is always work for them outside of the traditional escort work!
When I was growing up, my friends and I used to play the game “Who has the Most Cash.” We would count the money that our clients brought in and then we would spend it on a crazy dinner, a new outfit, a weekend getaway or a new boat. Who has the most money? We did the same thing when hiring an escort – we felt like we were interviewing them to be our next client!